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specifically target people who want to do stuff on their own I do treat people
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game so depending on on where you fall in the
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in the scope of things we have something for you money and
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why I usually sit in the back he was working
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for at that and up
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but I think it’s a little too much that bennett
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always get the best up
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others that’s right off against her okay so let me ask a quick question how many
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people here
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how many people here one relationship I better see a whole lot more and now
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one of the things that while I hope you’re talking about but if I do all
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this weird stuff persuasion
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was call si Herodotus
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it was a program specifically designed to teach men
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how to become the kind of lover every woman tennis
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about can it was all designed to learn
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using NLP and other types of systems
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how to find out how exactly how woman wanted to be touched
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you ordered sequence you want to be touched how she knew she was getting it
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based on
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what she considered to be her perfect
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kiss perfect touch the perfect everything and to give it back to a
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woman in such a way
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you automatically said
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her I’m your what about the guy
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is the only have to pay attention to what women really want
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and give it to them in a way that they knew that they were getting
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please let me ask you a question if you met a guy
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that touched you can exactly
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always dreamed at the right time in the right place
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and every and every time I tell this story War II
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talk about this we get that response
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because every one of us man or woman is moving through the world with this
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little
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internal checklist and we’re projecting
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wanted everyone around us and every time we meet a guy
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me okay doesn’t match my physical in Jack did he say the right thing at the
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right time
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into the degree that the person you’re interacting with matches your checklist
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they get for the video game to get to go to the next level last night you that
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word game
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after all those books playing your strauss and everything came out but
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the bottom line is that you have a checklist you have a hierarchy
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up what’s important to you not just in terms of quality in a guy
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but you have on now that you’re moving to the world
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looking for somebody to yet and to the degree that they fit that man
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you follow up you become very attracted to that person
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become desiring more intimacy with that person because
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what you see when you look at them when you interact with them
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physically verbally socially
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whenever is a mirror who you are inside
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can guys
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this is your first step it’s not about you alright
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every woman that you meeting its works the same
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for guys like this is the first master key
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everyone you meet is projecting
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onto you just like that but we don’t be calmer everything they want
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and to be absolutely happy to the degree
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that you have the ability to pay attention and give it back to them
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in a way that they know what they’re getting they will fall for you
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head over heels faster the making you can possibly imagine
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some other protocols and I T wanna be shot
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there some the protocols ATT can take a person
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from being a complete stranger
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to on the verge of falling in love with you in as little as 15 minutes
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now just because we can do that
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doesn’t mean we should as any you’ve ever been caught in a relationship for
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six months that went absolutely nowhere
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well tested right how many people here especially how could we would like to
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find better net
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region how many guys here’s a funny
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how I feel just like to get more women region okay we have one honest guy in a
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and they didn’t give me shares like ants in
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really just kinda bond with you all so
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person wanna talk about it is is little useful concept of I call
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checklist depending on what niche I’m teaching within teaching and I need to
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are and dealing with women I talk about the ideal our checklist
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the bottom line is men and women both do this many
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training more than you do I’m sorry I’m just gonna rocks
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highly recommend a course yeah if you graduate today courses
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and if they wanna pointing out you can talk to them about them
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but done one other things that we have to do is we got there are crap
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if we want to attract better people we got there are proper
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first and foremost because they’re gonna back what you project onto the world
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how many people here coping with myself back to eventually just
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I’m people here bishal tend to keep attracting the same kinda person in
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their life
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who I’m people donated which is usually wouldn’t
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you see the hapless that
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that we’ve moved to the world in the whole checklists most to them
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are programmed into us before we even realize
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there’s that the people around us are this with this light before
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tend to your parents or the people in those roles
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the people who gave you the most pleasurable experiences the lower
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most pleasurable experience is your early formative years usually have a lot
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here’s the bottom line on this every man or woman that you meet
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will in fact touch you
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the way they want to be touched in the place they want to be touched
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they will seek to you
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in the language the country some weird
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they want to be part in will literally
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come out now exactly what they want here
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all you have to do is avoid getting creative
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and give it back to them
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in the border in sequence that comes out of her mouth
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and you’ll start to feel dramatically comparable
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with you can how many will be here would like to have a guy
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now though this loan exposure to NLP or even some forms a conversational
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hypnosis
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anything it’s only does he do it back the nervous system
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and see in re who is attracted to
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or I wasn’t born somehow wrong
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to those people might have that feeling I had this to say:
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because it’s no different
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maybe the scale maybe the degree me
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but don’t we all want to look our best why
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week I will not let certainly come out looking are vastly
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we certainly didn’t smell all at great and yet
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we do these things because we do care because we do want people like us
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here’s the thing about the kind relationships and talking about
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somebody who engenders intense desire
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when you start applying the principles that i’m talking about.
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you won’t have a problem attracting people you have a problem getting rid of
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them
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which leads you better have a damn good way
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to soar for the kind of people that you want to send
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you see the people that we attract in our life are more often than not based
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on tablets
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people we identify with his children Werner early years
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who in combination being present in our role
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a pattern that place is the ultimate authority in our lives
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we love them and we start project that onto the law
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we look for the homes people
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the attitudes and behavioral traits
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that we are naturally predisposed
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to gravitate not because we enjoyed a
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and if we do they usually run seem getaway
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and we’re gonna go back to the home so we can understand your stuff starts
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so we can begin to change it so we can begin to create
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and the Karma the kind of person
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that he’d get the kind of guy or gal that you really want
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not the one that was programmed into us
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intelligent
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for housing on other people in abusive relationships you might find similar
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help people put them behind them stuff like that
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hard drive you barely have an operating system
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to use a computer for to your brain
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what ever comes first
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becomes the standard which everything else is measured by
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it becomes what’s familiar
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if you run into all into an environment where your help
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but her most basic fundamental outlook 2007 again
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she doesn’t understand what’s familiar
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and she understands what’s comfortable
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if you have a choice she has to choose
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you will too what’s in the years usually what’s their first
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and this is why if you have somebody
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like when you’re dealing with an alcoholic or something Chronicle getting
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abusive relationships
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that person may buy into a relationship that
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July going on there’s a lot of are doing
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and you can honestly mister play with dialogue in these voices in your head
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notice that different places the usual course I will be done before
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figures you my first standing at the time
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because most of us courses are here and here and here
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because we’re this is usually where we are
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when those voices are seeking
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we identify with the voices
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and it down authority figures in our life
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they become a template by which we start to create our own checklist
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does it match or does is million
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or on
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national you unconsciously sort for
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crap now emotionally organize people love me feeling good feeling happy
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but for some people love has a couple other elements in it that we don’t only
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consider
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her because it’s something about them
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years back to those people something they don’t like about themselves
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which brings us to our next
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our next lesson and how you actually
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energy were we can fix you not broken Nana you a broken
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when does that really mean it just me that you’re thinking about things in a
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sermon is not getting what you want
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and to you understand how to run your brain
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will continue to have thoughts and memories
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and ideas that were put in there without your consent
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most time out here realization and I’ll continue anyway
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and my persuasion and influence courses I teach people anything outside your
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awareness is outside your control ninety
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every woman dreams and up for rule is pay attention
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people and she will love you for
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while why am i keeping track in the same kind of people in your life
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it’s not about good or bad it’s about what was their first
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and what you’re showing for this is also why you can be a great guy a great girl
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everything you ever wanted in a relationship should check this is happy
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because it doesn’t match at Camp
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it’s how he sees himself seem have a sinkhole resistance
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and resistance caught up in 10 for basic ways
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we resist
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any came that challenges for calls into question
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how we see ourselves
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we resist a move away from anything that jeopardizes
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how we think
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other people will say yes
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and we have you resist
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anything that contradicts what we now
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to be true
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now there’s one other kind the resistance that rears its ugly head
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lovingly call it the fuck you factor missus call reactants
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and you’ll most likely seriousness any kind your parents don’t want me to date
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and the first words government you know it’s annoying were right there
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right but you keep Gina
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or you keep seeing her in spite of what your parents said
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and even though you might not even at attracted to him right away the longer
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they talk better he looks
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it’s a natural hard-wired reaction to
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any kind of persuasion that we getting that we didn’t ask for
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you hit hard-wired into every human being on the planet
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so the secret becomes how do you make people want to do the things we want
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them to know
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will give you that from that debt this raw emotional response
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pay attention to that because every time something comes out of my mouth that
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gives you a
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less than positive emotional response something need to explore
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more because the things you running away from
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keep on with other people in your life
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when it comes to me ideal woman they have a problem
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the problem is a the ship yeah
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and the things that are supposed to work in a chronological
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linear progression cuz I have I seen a causes the
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cause I C tell me think but that’s not how women think
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as a rule not that they’re dumber or irrational
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in like that but as a rule
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and rules mean that the truth fifty-one percent of the time useful
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their wages seeking now certain language patterns give you these
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are can can create certain effects on the brain
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and then they can they cause you to change your perception the world because
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they change how your brain processes information
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guys has a role to thinking what is commonly referred to as cost
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side it was bumper to bumper I couldn’t get there
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but there’s an evil cousin I said that he was actually pretty cool
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secret recipe today for making any relationship work
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in a cause-and-effect relationship there’s a sequential ordinal
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axe causes like causes see in a complex equipment relationship
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this time you’re such a time for us
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late because all these things at White and pick jack up the day here
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if you love jack keeping did these sound familiar
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not necessarily content but the structure if you actually why
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right this is one of the reasons in relationships we have dropped because a
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man to give you all the reasons why
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something into is what is the way this
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a woman to tell you what it means and that’s why you don’t get each other
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a lot of the times because
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everything you do gentleman means something
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to her to us it’s inconsequential the hardest elements that happen
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that led to the result not everything least you’re not true
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everything we do you will have to me not just a random event
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welcome to the cause of most
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trouble in a relationship but wait there’s more
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here’s the worst well I’m gonna give you got this wrong way she talked a little
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bit this and we’ll talk about me approach
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that be okay because someday
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if you guys actually use this stuff might actually get a relationship and my
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10 onto it
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right women ladies
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no the surgeon is a cold rain rules but then John Medina
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and you have a book
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if you don’t get it in that book
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I think you talked about this but if not there’s a a video floating around on
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YouTube reflection
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Google you talk about this when we get stressed out
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nigga tennis the contentious
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they get progressively more picky in detail oriented
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in LP terminology in call them down shutters
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be getting more you if they’re having a bad day you leave the toilet seat up
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okay it’s not gonna stop at the toilet see
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gay it’s going to be the toilet seat was up he nearly fell in it was the middle
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of the night
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he also left the 2k that the cap off the toothpaste
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when when you grow up on
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from here her purse like with practice anyway
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on by known then what I know now
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but here’s my point when guys get that
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we start to defend ourselves
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which only makes it worse thank I’ll tell you all about the dynamics at this
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later
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from the low from the male perspective guys it’s not
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rational it’s not logical or
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I left the toilet she does Emily night I was tired I’m sorry let it go
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no because
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she needs to tell you how she feels because she doesn’t she can’t let go
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your job
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is to let her vent the magic mantra
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honey I’m sorry I was wrong. will get you hot
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everything regardless of how egregious as long as you’re sincere with it
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theories important okay
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is a couple should attack is bigger than you this is one the reasons why a lot
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I’ll
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times when we’re out in DT environment
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we just get
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we get complete cold shoulder from women don’t know why
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guys don’t understand something your woman is brilliant
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anyone you approach really is bright running by that
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what I mean is her sister motion intelligence her ability
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to analyzed and qualifier
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tiny by language C cues the voice inflections
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is off the charts for the average woman compared to guys most guys were done
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bricks K and a good job but it’s little sometimes it’s bad
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for a guy to figure out if a woman’s attracted to him
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she would almost literally have to go
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up and then he still wonder
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K but why
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why I’m bringing this up guys in the field have noticed that sometimes in the
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approach a woman in a club or hire a higher
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populated social interaction there’s a little bit screen that comes up
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so cold shoulder discovery copper so he getting
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make you know 10 feet over and pick the temperatures start to decrease in
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Ross comes out right little life goes on inside and she talks
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you ever wonder why how about you
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hey yet
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why you see the socialization that women receive a man received
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are dramatically different
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you woman the average woman’s brain
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she is trained to hone in on subtle body language cues
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boys ships that let her know
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when the conversations all for
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because she’s moving through the world silly everybody around
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doing it the way she does when she gives you the subtle cues
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that the conversation isn’t going anywhere it’s over
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cat
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and when you don’t get it she has to keep escalating
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im because you still aren’t getting it
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until finally she literally has to blow smoke in your face and turn back to you
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before you get the head now women don’t want to have to do that
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but their socialization such
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that needed see women doing what you approach here’s the thing I want to get
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you don’t wanna be
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they’re not doing at meanness they’re doing enough fear
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why if you look at me and be my Narsha one fear
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you see women have different anxieties about interacting with men
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than men do about women see guys you’re free which you up when you walk up to
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her
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after you must up your courage said all your mattress pump yourself up gotcha
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best
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best Don you’re afraid she’s gonna rejected
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have right we’ll get into that
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but when it a little bit different
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you see women as a rule it ought to be nice there talk to be
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considered their talk to go the extra mile
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they’re also talk when to figure things out but they’re not talk
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how to get themselves our situations aren’t going well
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there program partisan to the don’t want you to approach
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their problem is they don’t know how to extricate from
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themselves front if it goes wrong
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machine think they’re afraid of getting into an interaction that they can’t get
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out these true nature
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that’s why we use time concerns you use time constraints
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I don’t I N gauge on a sign up
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right that would be left hand if you live in
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up get haley said know the same notify me says time constraints
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which in said I have a lot of time right now but i just want to talk to me too
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cuz you could really interesting I have to go
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one right if you have been a victim in one of those
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those lines out there K it’s a very good tactic it takes the stress of
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doesn’t make it gives the person impression you’ll be leaving soon
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so they relax right and it works
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can has not been around for about 30 years ago
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but about the pick up community what you believe
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this is not about doing this is not about tricks by the way
44:47
everything I’m gonna teach me teach you in sharing with you
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is %uh attics and honesty and openness but they are strategically
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ballot they work I don’t invest my time and energy
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in low percentage techniques
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and everything is up being authentic
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but we need understand the dynamics of what’s going on with the other side
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because until you understand how they see the world how they moved to the
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world
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you won’t be able to change what you’re doing
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you won’t be able to understand it and you won’t be able to adapt
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and if you can adapt you die
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to survival right
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sup understand this women are have that bitch she’ll
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not because they want to be not because they get off on making you feel this big
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because they’re afraid their defense mechanisms are such
45:45
that they need to protect themselves
45:48
from getting into a deep interaction that they can remove themselves from
45:55
once that’s taken care of
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they’re much more open to becoming approachable
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see ladies your job want better man the man you want in your life
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the one just scaring away
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the menu one you lie want to respect your boundaries
46:12
who would bend over backwards to give you every romantic adventure
46:16
every speaking every moment being swept off your feet up surrendering to that
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passion intimacy
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always dreamed up who’ll never approach
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you know why because most women are socializing the giving of body language
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signals
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that only attract
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people who are extraordinarily Aaron self-confident
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who are not put off by
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boundaries these are people who have no regard for boundaries as a rule
46:45
this is why the average nice guy have to save himself up to approach it
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because it’s not natural where ass if
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you were willing to be more approachable to signal
46:57
that you wanted to be approached you’d get approached by more the kinda guy
47:01
want see other systems read
47:05
everything you you’re not broke a everything you’re doing
47:09
has a positive intention behind it
47:12
but the other results the way it’s being interpreted
47:16
by the other side who have their own socialization own checklist
47:19
are causing this disconnect the ladies
47:23
your job is to learn to become approachable
47:27
how do you learn to become more approachable any understand body
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language
47:30
but the most important one is to develop
47:34
very socially and progress socially acceptable and progressive Waste
47:38
to systematically remove your cell from any interaction
47:43
that’s not going in the direction you want to go
47:47
right nurses some good books I recommend later that
47:50
are good place to start referencing
47:54
K guys you want to become you understand that when she approaches you
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if you learn what to look for and you learn how to talk to her in a way that
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she
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when she talked to you she sees the best parts of her
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reflected in you she’ll become dramatically attracted to you
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I i’m not talking about being an authentic I’m about showing the woman
48:17
the park so
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you that are most like her
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because number too much sameness boring
48:26
too much difference dangerous but that right mix
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excitement safety
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Alexa now we have the stuff every room any conventional romance novel ever
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created
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right spent a lot of time studying romance novel
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there’s a lot you can learn John them
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okay cell questions on this
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its me Jesse know there will be a test later
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alright they work best yessir min uses
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you did this the order her that’s reflected new
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no way sir min okay so how they relate to sorta like to dance to the polarities
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the male and female because you know the the woman is bringing answered
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an energy the table in the man as well so you’re flipping back
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that something that’s in her already seems to me that you know there’s a
49:29
something maybe one struggles to pursue a memo to dinner what I just said was
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you have enough similarities sector say
49:37
enough difference is that you’re saying right and that’s that data polarity that
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you’re talking about
49:41
when it all into larry is justice display right
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you know an ass that’s why the intimacy and passion comes from
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the intimacy comes from the same this
49:52
from the openness sharing the excitement comes from the differences
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yes up
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murder mmm-hmm
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yes would you like to know why
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said mom
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my you think that is ride
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mmm
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so you want to know how to take those guys don’t you wanna
50:24
hubert so she attracting guys you don’t want what you want more tension
50:28
red any random guy well so we’re not gonna say she’s easy just often
50:37
but she just get a lot of male attention
50:38
intact nothing wrong with that long handle
50:42
right there’s a lot of people arm and there’s lightning and we can go way of
50:46
into that
50:47
you know learning to understand the different types of women at the whole
50:51
it’s a whole different kettle of fish we’re gonna stop us
50:54
some yes it’s interesting that you bring this up
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another again another segue I was about to give you a break to you each of a
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drink coffee and a hottie
51:08
but now all I have to do this I and yet and yet more Neurosci
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K is a sister
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again yes K K this is because the the neuroscience an explanation make it
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sound
51:25
very very complicated it’s actually very simple
51:29
once we know what we’re dealing with alright this is gonna be a lil
51:36
convoluted
51:37
actually no it won’t accomplish
51:40
we’re gonna have to find out my stand up
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hi Sheila
51:48
Shayla they got it wrong the first ride
51:52
all right here to watch whatever media get your space
51:56
what I want to do as I wanted remember a time in your life
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when you new
52:03
when you realized and fell
52:07
absolutely attracted and
52:12
and and you knew it because a the way people around you
52:15
were responding to you and you know it and know what I want to do succeed you
52:19
have that feeling
52:21
when I want to use backtrack to a couple minutes before you realized it
52:26
when you’re still in that feeling but the realization here
52:29
close your eyes now
52:33
notice where your body that feeling less
52:37
as she noticed their lives
52:40
just point to it look at it with you in her eyes
52:43
notices a color associated with that
52:47
and now let’s just pretend for a moment that we can reach into that spot
52:52
Rev all that energy take it out on hold in your hands
52:56
reaching gravity you don’t believe me to do it
53:00
grab with both your hands noticed its
53:03
moving in a certain direction pay attention to the directions moving first
53:06
impression
53:07
now double the spin double the speed at which is moving
53:11
double the amplitude just key physically doubling that energy
53:14
until its takes on a life of its own talk becomes impossible to stop
53:19
when you know you’ve got it I can tell who’s gonna get in a
53:22
slam it back in wash
53:25
notice a change this how wonderful that feels
53:31
open your eyes and look around the room is a helluva good lookin
53:35
yup
53:39
right now what we just do their
53:43
go back to that feeling of being totally attracted attracted
53:47
attracted when you knew it you felt it was
53:51
undisputable want you to stand
53:54
the way you were standing what you agree the way you were breathing
53:58
and
54:02
and walk-in notice was first to happen to your feelings
54:08
how you physically feel as you soon posture
54:11
up being absolutely attractive now while holding that same breathing rate that
54:18
same posture
54:19
seen everything without changing anything
54:23
try to ugly knows she can’t really do it without changing understand
54:31
now go back to feel attractive stand even there
54:40
that’s how she does when you move through the world
54:44
holding a certain physiology having a nervous system in a certain
54:49
configuration
54:50
the emotional states that you live in
54:54
really out everyone around you and they perceive you
54:58
exactly the same way the problem is that most sinister practicing she
55:03
physiology which leads to she emotional states
55:07
which leads to st. less than attractive most
55:10
the time it’s really that simple
55:15
it’s not about what you believe 2.1
55:18
you with your body prove me wrong
55:22
her body close your eyes to launch a look at me when you do this
55:25
I want you to remember a time when you felt
55:28
pass an attractive K
55:32
as George Carlin say those those days a week suffer from severe appearance
55:37
deficit
55:37
min remember that time
55:42
and you know it you could tell by the way they were funny you weren’t to
55:45
you were being seen in the best possible light and know what I want you to do
55:50
while holding nap physiology I could see you doing
55:54
not a couple fucking factor
55:57
you I tell you something to close to do try to feel attractive without changing
56:04
anything
56:05
use all the will power you have
56:10
but keep that crappy physiology
56:14
no slap now
56:17
while holding onto the crappy I’m unattractive stay mentally
56:21
shift your body back the oh my god I’m so hostage
56:26
and notice what happens
56:30
mom
56:33
guys just went from five to attend we fuckin quick
56:36
is it really that easy
56:41
mom now
56:46
on hot people
56:51
simple right the only thing you have to remember guys and gals
56:56
is that every
57:00
feeling that we have in the body emotionally Kandivli
57:03
has a corresponding physiology of course I’m posture
57:07
rate and breathing everything every feeling
57:13
every state has a feeling and body posture
57:17
everybody posture has a feeling in our best classes on Wheaties persuasion and
57:22
influence things like that
57:23
we spent a lot of time understanding this connection is a technique we call a
57:28
rockstar technique
57:29
and a while like he was actually designed
57:33
are for women to attract guys
57:36
I had a tweak a lot of it so that we could be guys could actually have a
57:40
chance
57:40
the ladies cell wiped when I tell you things a lot of it has been field tested
57:44
by women
57:45
to get the kinda guys name there’s a technique
57:49
called the rock star technique where
57:52
the coalition are in our conversation frustration it was course is a master
57:55
and commander Tony
57:56
story goes like this: it was a woman
58:00
who on earth and attractiveness it was probably run a 67
58:03
not super hot right and yet
58:06
whenever she now whenever she went to a club
58:11
she own the room every guy in the place wanted to be with her
58:14
and the girls are like all our
58:18
the 1910 you’re beside himself how is it happen
58:21
she like putting aside what’s going on not
58:24
she left the guys who Marino pay now
58:27
and then one day are a smart card holder side and say
58:32
message must what she secretly
58:35
have all these guys hang out and wonder
58:39
you know be in your entourage since the to watch or simple
58:43
for you out every night I imagine a rockstar and I stand like a rockstar
58:49
I imagine myself as a rock star and I am
58:52
and when I walk in the room I moved like I’m looks like everybody’s there’s
58:56
me and guess what
58:59
recently there is and see her really
59:05
now
59:08
yeah now the neuroscience kinda
59:12
and here is your son Connor on K
59:16
you haven’t you should study them because it is
59:20
it is one of the the most important medical discoveries of our coverage
59:23
okay mirror neurons they are in fact the physiological basis for impact that
59:29
communication
59:30
K on most on the most basic level
59:33
when he discovered this was there was a some researchers in Italy
59:37
and they were doing some some studies on movement and
59:40
and how how the brain interprets information and one allowed assistance
59:44
was peeling a banana
59:45
and then had to have these rhesus monkeys I think they were are hooked up
59:48
to the VG’s
59:49
UK geez media weird brain instrument
59:55
technical term an the month was a hook up the sky hang out
59:59
you watching the lab assistant you’re gonna
60:03
and one in the lab you know i text happen to be looking at the instruments
60:08
and no to something about the readings the area to the brain
60:13
in the monkey that were firing or the same
60:17
areas that would be active if he were actually peeling the banana
60:21
to literally
60:25
what happens is when you observe somebody doing something
60:30
your nervous system buyers of
60:33
all the same neurological connections
60:36
and if you are actually doing and
60:40
that’s one cited by many facets equation me to give you another one really really
60:45
quick
60:45
I will do my best to keep it simple
60:48
but if you understand that the
60:52
then we understand how we can begin to create state in other people having the
60:55
Marcel
60:55
by holding certain physiology week impact ically
60:59
communicate information outside a conscious awareness
61:03
and scientists
61:06
again over-funded and really more set up an experiment
61:11
was again once again the other female dynamic with the mail over here with the
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female over here
61:20
and they took for this
61:23
example I don’t know the actual number used but to keep it simple today at five
61:28
random photographs
61:29
of people appear now in in various it ranges
61:32
attraction from you know really low
61:37
european stocks in the Phils dollar-some the world and a
61:42
very very attractive and five random
61:46
residents dossier tricking but I would ever
61:49
were doing playa they paired these up brandon League into this job
61:54
who was then told to engage in a phone conversation with
61:58
who he thought was dispersed wasn’t
62:02
completely blind these to engage in a conversation
62:08
at the end of the conversation are many men
62:12
was asked to evaluate the female based on the interaction
62:17
consistently whenever the man thought he was talking to an attractive
62:20
well goes by with the primary
62:24
preparedness was the picture
62:28
he consistently you
62:31
you consistently rated her as being
62:35
more talented more socially adept
62:40
more competent more countries
62:45
okay the woman asked
62:48
how she felt the interaction went
62:52
reported that she felt like the guy in uniform really got her
62:57
like he was present Peter make conversation very well
63:05
when the lady was on 10 severe
63:08
deficit paired with the same resin
63:13
are many men here consistently rated her lower in social deafness
63:18
intelligence count
63:21
everything and by the way this work the other way to
63:25
I believe sold I’m being being unilateral here
63:29
but that’s not the bill equal part you might think it would be
63:35
event took the audience up these interactions
63:40
and the ferociously headed
63:43
to the only thing left where the
63:47
audio snippets her responses
63:50
to him nothing up the mail remained
63:57
they don’t play those audios
64:00
to an independent panel of analysts in judges
64:05
who were then asked to rate
64:08
the female on the same criteria as this gentleman
64:12
based solely on the quality of her verbal
64:19
behavior
64:27
100 percent
64:32
something in the way
64:34
gentlemen on the other end of the phone saw
64:39
this llama was transmitted
64:42
verbally and non verbally to this woman’s nervous system in such a way
64:50
she literally took on the behaviors
64:54
projected
64:59
that result everyone around her
65:02
this is happening to you
65:06
all the time outside if you’re conscious old
65:10
and you were doing it other people K
65:16
now questions tell you that
65:20
while in the world according to DIN
65:23
at this time call the acceptance rejection projection connection
65:27
which is a real long run away saying your checklist
65:31
you see human beings
65:34
unlike most guys creatures have a capacity for reflective saw
65:38
we have the ability to have thoughts about our thoughts te feelings about our
65:41
feelings
65:41
and to assign arbitrary value to those feelings and those identities that we
65:47
see
65:48
yeah just not my day for
65:51
good sound haha stress work
65:56
so
65:59
many times the way people see us
66:03
is a reflection house years because that’s what we do we approach
66:08
especially guys game
66:11
ladies might not realize is that whenever guys getting ready to approach
66:15
a woman
66:15
he’s going to basically want two things unless
66:20
but this is usually default a
66:23
he sees all he wants to talk to first he goes oh she’s not like to meet her
66:27
she can reject me you know wrote
66:31
I or
66:35
this is a fun he see her
66:39
she’s amazing have to be imagines
66:43
walking a they walk I the chemistry is there
66:47
everything clicks and they’re together is passionate wonderful for three or
66:51
four months instantly
66:53
through lace Chavez trial she leaves heartbroken brought that he never
66:56
approached
66:57
them
67:02
you laugh we do this shit to ourselves
67:06
but if we’re running those highly charged emotional movies in our head
67:11
we think we’re projecting what do you think
67:18
we’re training the people working in Iraq
67:21
with to do this is why
67:27
your lease always be because she’s
67:30
himself in a way rate identity
67:33
that’s the rub
67:38
well we gotta love the sorghum
67:43
acted are the problem is 8-9 ish is going on and when we do that
67:47
right see most mostly have no problem
67:51
attracting guys you know
67:55
me I don’t care if you’re super model
67:58
orville still you probably won’t have any trouble
68:02
tracking people just the one you want true nature
68:07
okay why
68:10
as a singer Celine Dion when our
68:13
we know we wanna said now but there’s another layer
68:17
where we didn’t know was force based on
68:22
history down 30 figures life all this stuff but we’re moving to the world male
68:28
or female makes no difference
68:29
projecting onto everyone around us was
68:33
rate an appropriate price based on a
68:36
world our actions and we meet someone
68:40
even partially matches at now we hold long
68:43
we hold on tight walk
68:47
because we’re free
68:48
would be something better you to the next thing comes along might be worse
68:53
I how many how many please tell you did you guys got potential
68:58
mine I can’t tell you how
69:05
hi this is news to you for the whole should
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because women don’t see you as you see yourself they see how you could be based
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on their map in your world
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guys who this is the same thing
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see most guys wanna give women sexual fantasies
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they want them to have until the ones they really want right
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it’s all about understanding the other person’s
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when you see the world and being willing to do one of two things:
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only set people who match: or
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be willing to change your map to a comedy
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there’s now as all women are far more hard-wired to doing this in
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okay because their socialization teaches do it
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they don’t realize the desolate doing a dissident putting it nicely to help
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their own
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and then of course to get married kid
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career she saw him and his career woman now she’s beautiful wife and homemaker
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twenty years later
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the end the day she’s exhausted Jim
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for she married guy
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arguably good provider
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stable exciting as host in
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up who might have been a very exciting guy we first met
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only she said i do he’s done them
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why because socially program brought takeover
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you become different people because the annual Tiki
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on key if it
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real simple if you marry your life be the guy she fell
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not because she’s married do all things
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thank God that you did to get a fall in love with you in the first place
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you don’t like the girl will come now because she had a lap
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she just put everybody else
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those you
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eventually wind up in a relationship at the beginning
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never started
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never stop being never be that guy
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and ninety
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so
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we going deep into the sign to give you a little haitian
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yet unpublished yep alright
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let’s take it take a ten-minute break
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go potty have lots of chocolate Gin Blossoms caffeine combat units in action
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news
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okay
